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ok god how many guys responded amazes me, but im kind of cool with the fact we know a bit more about each other now right? we are not many we all know each other a bit and this helped a bit more hehehe

anyway, you might expect news or something well i have to say i've been great lately you see this is what has been happening

after i told her i felt like @#(! and hurt and all that, she started to think about all what she did and why and she does not regret, BUT she regrets about one guy in particular. of course, what is done cannot be undone, so no point speaking about it.

she regrets not trusting me when i told her i liked her, not loved, but liked enough to feel certain things. we had a conversation face to face this week because she came to my city for a 1 week job and we had time to chat and speak about this matter.

unless she lied to me , she was really sorry and decided to stop playing "testing her luck with men" and stick to one guy in particular.

telling me that that one guy was a real 21 virgin dude (because she admits he couldnt satisfy her much).. i kind of think its a lie, or that he lied to her in some way, but that is not the point, the point is she has been dating him and that is something im relieved about, i preffer she sticking to one person and giving her all to just one , that made me feel relieved and i got to say, she could have found danger someday dating internet guys and all that crap..

im really very relieved about all this, she is now apparently dating only one that she made sound like a good guy (gamer guy)

now personally, i've been occupying my mind on other stuff, practicing guitar for lolz and riding my bike wich i've waited for 6 months to get rebuilt.

i feel renewed, revitalized , feels like things could turn a more appropiated approach now, i dont want her to become a slut.. that is all i guess, after that i dont care who she dates as long as she is fine i guess, and i of course, wont play pimp cuz that is not my syle, if need be i'll be in abstinence untill i get a new girl i dont care hehehehe

all i need is to work and enjoy riding this piece of steel, it does miracles on me..

good day to yall, editing again if need be some other time!

Address your insecurities that make her admissions cause you discomfort.

You confided in her, bad mistake; now she has got you back with her big-*#$@-all-night-long stories.
Maybe time to find someone new who doesn't want to stab you in the heart? I'd go with option 2.

She's leading you on / rubbing it in your face, dude. They call it the "friend zone", but that's a really bad name for it, because a friend would know better than to do that. You don't want to hear about her exploits, no one does. You're not her girlfriend. Bad place to be.

Sounds like the type you can have fun with, hook up with from time to time, if you're down with that -- but if you're looking for anything deeper with her, it's just not there. She's not the type you can have a future with. Would you really want to anyways?

You also got a little bit of that first girlfriend, put her on a pedestal thing going on too. When you get more experience, you'll know that she's OK, but there's a whole lot better out there.

So yeah, move on. And work on those insecurities -- not so you can listen to her stories, but to make yourself more attractive to the next women you meet.

Suicide as a temporary solution?
J/K. Never ever do that. That's the cowards way out.

How do you stay (be) friends with someone that meant (means) something to you? Why would you do that to yourself?

You clearly want her to be your girl so...
1: I'd be direct. I'd need to know now if she is mine or not. Not in a minute, not in an hour, not tomorrow, NOW! If I don't get a positive reply OR she has already irritated me enough so I wouldn't even want her goto 2;
2: Now what I would (always) do: I'd tell her to $#@! off and I'd try to find a better one.

Option No3 is for different persons than I am and its: Wait your turn. I've seen it work but the price of waiting is just too high for me.

Then again I'm mostly single (and an alcoholic)... not the greatest way to lead a life but I can't take the bs at any cost.

P.S. Don't trust everything that comes out of a woman's mouth
P.P.S Option 1 is not done via phone.

"should i erase her from my world ? like the cowards way , turning the back and walking away from trouble?

or should i be a man and digest it as i can and HOPE to find someone to think about (even if it takes years) ?"

Cowards way? Are you a coward because you choose NOT to play Russian roulette?

Are you a coward because you have better things to do than waste yourself on a situation that will drive you bonkers?

Be picky about who you spend you're time on, if they don't want to earn you're respect..don't waste you're time.

/ And,yes,that includes the really hot ones.

Djole88 wrote:QUOTE (Djole88 @ Aug 21 2014, 12:24 PM) Suicide as a temporary solution?
J/K. Never ever do that. That's the cowards way out.

How do you stay (be) friends with someone that meant (means) something to you? Why would you do that to yourself?

You clearly want her to be your girl so...
1: I'd be direct. I'd need to know now if she is mine or not. Not in a minute, not in an hour, not tomorrow, NOW! If I don't get a positive reply OR she has already irritated me enough so I wouldn't even want her goto 2;
2: Now what I would (always) do: I'd tell her to $#@! off and I'd try to find a better one.

Option No3 is for different persons than I am and its: Wait your turn. I've seen it work but the price of waiting is just too high for me.

Then again I'm mostly single (and an alcoholic)... not the greatest way to lead a life but I can't take the bs at any cost.

P.S. Don't trust everything that comes out of a woman's mouth
P.P.S Option 1 is not done via phone.

iiiii really have the urge to do that

/edit: O lol.

I entered a lot of text, and than I realized I was kicking in open doors or repeating parts of other peoples statements.

Good luck.

If have never met a woman who's pass to her naughty bits was worth being put through "the angry/scorned woman from hell who was out for some preceived pay back" treatment.

Advice:
Tear down the platform you've put this particular woman on and build yourself that incredible tree fort you have always wanted as a kid.

MrChaos wrote:QUOTE (MrChaos @ Aug 22 2014, 08:36 AM) If have never met a woman who's pass to her naughty bits was worth being put through "the angry/scorned woman from hell who was out for some preceived pay back" treatment.

Advice:
Tear down the platform you've put this particular woman on and build yourself that incredible tree fort you have always wanted as a kid.

i luv me some chaotic advice