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Posted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 1:03 am
by ShadowFox_
When you see people die violently it changes your perspective. Adapt and overcome. You have my condolences and if you want to talk you know where to find me.
Posted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 6:13 pm
by Dangeruss
the thing about rock bottom is the only way from there is up
hope you climb out in one piece
thinking of you
Russ
Posted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 9:36 pm
by forcestealer
Posted: Mon Nov 09, 2009 9:14 am
by TheCorsair
Really terrible to hear and I know words don't mean much in situations like these but there's a lot of people wishing you the best and believe in you to pull through and get through this.
The fiance thing can always be fixed... plenty of fish in the sea as they say... I guess everything happens for a reason even if we don't understand it at the time.
All the best mate.
Posted: Tue Nov 10, 2009 2:08 pm
by Zeta
I really feel for you mate. I don't know you, and I haven't been part of this community for long but I lost my fiance of 5 years and my house LAST NIGHT. I feel dead inside with no one or no where to turn to. Can't eat, can't sleep and can't concentrate. I slept in my office last night (if you can call 30 minutes with my eyes closed "sleep").
But as people on this thread have pointed out, things can ONLY get better from here. I'm determined to get right back up and face the world with a "is this all you got?" attitude.
I prey for you friend, I hope you find comfort in someone or something. I may have lost the woman I love, I may have lost my house and my possesions, and maybe all I have now is a suitcase with some clothes. But I have fantastic friends, never under-estimate the importance of that.
God bless you.
(For those who are wondering, no I didn't cheat on her or treat her badly. She simply stopped loving me at the weekend and the house is joint ownership. She wouldn't leave, and I couldn't stay with her being there)
Posted: Thu Nov 19, 2009 2:23 pm
by Badger
Suicicde is never the solution. I have been in those shoes and wanted to take that path to end the issues I was facing. However, family and friends were there to pick me up, brush me off, and kick me in the right direction. If you look around, you will find those willing to give you a shoulder to lean on and an attentive ear to listen as you vent.
Let it out, don't let it stay built up inside. We care about you and are here for ya man.
Posted: Thu Nov 19, 2009 4:58 pm
by id3nt1ty
Badger wrote:QUOTE (Badger @ Nov 19 2009, 02:23 PM) Let it out