The best analogy I can come up with is this: The community is a group of older guys who are letting someone's little cousin hang with them. If the little cousin doesn't get he should stfu and follow along then the group hazes him unmercifully. Sometimes the little cousin leaves, sometimes he wises up, and sometimes he becomes a maladjusted pyromanic.
There tends to be a fair amount early on of love for new guys, but pretty quickly the love becomes "tough love" and its *boom headshot* time if you act up. I agree that we tend to be pretty $#@!ing civilized compared to say XBox Live but we are shrinking with many of the old timers barely hangin in there. Maybe its a cycle, how do I actually know. Given the depth and length of the decline maybe we should reopen the discussion.
Using the leaderboard oveer the last nine months as the baseline you find some interesting things. The results are only directional correct tbs but telling. Around 75% of the new player stay less then five games that count. We retain a dismal percent more then ten games about 5% iirc. Now if there where a ton of activity on the newb servers Id be inclined to poo poo that number but I think it is fairly accurate. Why? Probably its a combo of wtf is going on, and the treatment they
observe in game? I really don't know. I am concerned about things.
Why are we losing people faster then we are replacing them? Maybe because guys like me lambast people like SharpFish PUBLICLY for something that pisses me off. In game, rude, nasty, and going for the throat. Its become standard operating procedure to deal with people who are not onboard the clue train to bash them. Both here and in game. A good portion of us our doing it.
To call out Hermit for time served is ludicrous the guy knows the game, cares about the game, is a valued member of the squad, he just isnt as vocal as some of us. So when he finally speaks his
opinion a number of people attack him. If you disagree

but he has put in time enough for you to make your own sandwich on this one.
It is the internet so I guess Im dreaming but maybe something can come of this discussion.
MrChaos