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MrC's advice always seems great until you try and follow it and only then do you realise that either it didn't make sense or you didn't understand it*.


* And nobody knows which it is, least of all MrC.

This is not what you want to hear but she sounds pretty callous and awful to me. She knows you guys dated, and most likely knows that you still feel something for her, and now she is telling you all about her sexual exploits? She is at best highly insensitive. Now perhaps she is trying to get you back because you did it first, but she does not sound like she is worthy of the pedestal that you have put her on. My advice is to have no further contact with her. That part sucks but it is usually the quickest way to get over someone, get through it and get on to the next one. Good luck.

kaiser33 wrote:QUOTE (kaiser33 @ Aug 21 2014, 09:15 PM) i know most of you will say shes a whore or whatever

Why the $#@! would any of us say that?

The slut shaming culture is the most idiotic thing we are doing. It's weak, insecure and stupid. Women who enjoy sex are to be celebrated, not disapproved of. What $#@!ing taliban logic is that anyway?

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I know that wasn't your main point, but it's something I feel quite strongly about. The idiotic double standards regarding male / female sexuality need to die a lonely death already.

Is there anywhere you can go and crash for a few days or weeks to get your thoughts together that is safe?
(don't tell her you are going there, and don't leave a contact number)

Mom, or Dad's place?

It is near impossible to make any rational decision when the object of your affection is right in front of you.

Adept wrote:QUOTE (Adept @ Aug 22 2014, 11:32 AM) Why the $#@! would any of us say that?

The slut shaming culture is the most idiotic thing we are doing. It's weak, insecure and stupid. Women who enjoy sex are to be celebrated, not disapproved of. What $#@!ing taliban logic is that anyway?

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I know that wasn't your main point, but it's something I feel quite strongly about. The idiotic double standards regarding male / female sexuality need to die a lonely death already.

+1

Raveen wrote:QUOTE (Raveen @ Aug 22 2014, 07:35 AM) MrC's advice always seems great until you try and follow it and only then do you realise that either it didn't make sense or you didn't understand it*.

Instructions unclear, moved to Detroit.

the_capm wrote:QUOTE (the_capm @ Aug 22 2014, 09:02 AM) +1

+2

i think the same, women have the right to enjoy sex, i dont say my ex should not do that,but i cant deny it gets me jealous because well.. we were something!.. im just pissed by the fact she is doing it and scrubbing it in my face like if i never ever loved her or anything, but time has passed since the comment and seing that i've pretty much have had support from all my friends i am not that hurt anymore, im more pissed than hurt now and that i guess is better, i've started speaking to her, hell if she bothers me again i'll take a more less talkative aproach

Personally, I am still good friends with my ex because we're both decent people that while we can "remember the good old days" we can (hopefully) separate it from what's going on now. Really, what you have to do is decide whether or not maintaining contact with her is healthy for you and if it isn't, then dump her.

hang in there sent - you'll be surprised how @#(! works out with women

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This is what I think of every time I see this song.