TheAlaskan wrote:QUOTE (TheAlaskan @ Nov 3 2018, 12:33 PM) I think Trump's successful election was an eye-opener for me - I was a fairly straightforward liberal, and I found his election instantly infuriating. How could such a large swath of the electorate be so repulsed by liberal ideas that they're willing to be led by such an obviously fraudulent, morally bereft, incapable leader? It's because they don't like Democrats' ideas (edit) and haven't been convinced because they're pushed off through identity politics and moral grandstanding. (end edit)
See, the issue I have with this is the idea that it's about "identity politics." You get to ignore "identity politics" because you're white, cis, het, and male. There are not established power structures that seek to enslave you, disenfranchise you, or murder you because of the color of your skin, the gender you have, or the people you like to $#@!. And pretending like these issues aren't "conservative" does a real disservice to conservatives: I know plenty of conservatives who are
incensed at the racism and sexism coming out of the Republican party. I know conservatives who aside from disliking Hillary Clinton were
furious that Donald Trump received a pass for all of his bull@#(! while Clinton's various suits were constantly under attack.
As for moral grandstanding, areyou$#@!ingkiddingme.jpg. If you're actually angry at the "moral grandstanding" of the left (which is pretty much for the most part "can you just let people who aren't like you live in peace for once") but you just kind of blink off everything the right has said for the past fifty years I'm forced to wonder what you're even paying attention to.
QUOTE It took me some time and a little pride-swallowing to try and listen to conservatives and get a better feel for why they were so *confident* in their ideas. My dad, for example, has been listening to Rush Limbaugh for literally 20+ years... he and I engage in very civil debates now because I decided to actually listen to him; I was able to sway him on my idea of immigration reform and universal health care, meanwhile, he made a good case for how the liberal left is sabotaging our civil discourse in its own right. He also reformed some of my thoughts about the approach and meaning of national security. I'm more "educated" than him, but it doesn't mean *every* idea he has is invalidated. He's a tad racist and sexist, but that's just how some people are and it's hard to change that with facts.[/quote]
But the thing you're missing is that some people (myself in particular and the community of people I live in) aren't just saddened by your dad's racism and sexism. Our lives are
literally under threat by racism and sexism. Dylan Roof shot up a Black church because he didn't like black people. When was the last time someone shot up a white church in America? You get to sit on the sidelines of all this and armchair general how minorities "should" deal with the constant assault on their ability to live in public spaces because you don't have to face the threat generated by the racists and the sexists.
To then turn around and claim these minorities are somehow "causing" this backlash is a) gaslighting and b)
literally parroting the voices of segregationists. And while it is safer now than it ever has been before for women, LGBT folk, and ethnic minorities, we still have instances all the time of people, many of whom are people in positions of authority whether it be police officers or notaries public or pharmacists, who take actions that either directly or indirectly threaten the lives of these minority groups. When a black man is shot in the back 16 times for having a knife but a man who killed 11 people with guns is arrested peacefully, any calls that "well the problem is identity politics" will be dismissed because they fly in the objective face of reality.
QUOTE Conservative ideas, while not always compassionate, are based on a different moral fabric than progressive ideas. Hard to change that, so we actually need to learn how to have a discourse. My point is that we have to have a *civil* discourse and let others speak or it hurts the efficacy of our system. Nobody is 100% right and nobody is 100% wrong. When both sides are shouting each other down, there won't be any good result; exactly how many minds on this message board has Ryu changed? Mayyybbeeee Madaccountant's?[/quote]
Civil discourse is very, VERY hard when one side is literally encouraging its actors to kill the other side. Should a Jew sit down and have a civil conversation with someone who honestly and earnestly believes that the Jew should be murdered for being Jewish? It's a great story when it happens, but I for one am absolutely
not going to go "but both sides" when that Jewish person simply declines to interact with the nazi. Should a woman sit down and have a civil conversation with her rapist about how rape isn't ok? Clearly and obviously
not. But at this point in time, this is what you are saying "needs to happen." Maybe *you* can sit down with a transphobe and have a civil conversation about how they should just be accepting of someone else's gender identity. I can't because they are literally coming from a position where my brain is utterly defective and I'm a monstrosity and abomination before god.
QUOTE I used to tout myself as a 'moderate' but I was lying to myself. I'm actually a moderate now... I'm not sure if this is proof, but I while I typically vote Democrat in elections, I find myself voting down more liberal referendums for what's that worth.[/quote]
I find myself voting down the vast majority of referendums that attempt to enact policy, but that's because I have a very low opinion of the average voter's ability to comprehend policy positions. I joke it's because they're too stupid but the real answer is complicated, and has to do with the fact that the average voter simply doesn't have time to become sufficiently informed on policy issues because they are busy raising kids, having jobs, etc. etc.
QUOTE If you want to say I'm trolling, that's fair. I troll a ton on here but it's usually fairly obvious and isn't the case right now. Anyways, my trolling is usually a lot funnier than making fairminded arguments for the right to free speech and civil discourse. And, I'm not giving Terran a horsey-back ride (just did that for my two-year-old so that's the analogy you get); he has been consistent in his ideas and I tend to agree with him.[/quote]
I presumed you were trolling because your post and Terran's post are very heavily disconnected from reality. All available evidence shows that censorship on campus is
not a partisan issue, and this is before we even factor in the nutso "universities" like Liberty University and Pensacola Bible College.
(For more information, check out the stories here:
https://www.thefire.org/newsdesk/ . Many of the highest profile cases are when a conservative person on a university is "suppressed," but there are at least as many instances where university professors are harassed or threatened for having liberal beliefs, typically not by students in those cases but by conservative lawmakers.)
Claims that liberals are making inflammatory statements simply fall flat when the elected president says that Stacey Abrams (who has a law degree from Yale, which is where Kavanaugh went, and served 10 years as Georgia's minority leader in their lower house) is "not qualified" to be governor.
What, do you suppose, is Trump referring to by her being not qualified?
They fall flat in the face of Trump calling Andrew Gillum a criminal. What about Gillum do you suppose makes Trump think he's a criminal?
They fall flat in the face of Trump telling us that Mexico is sending their drug dealers and rapists.
They fall flat in the face of Trump telling us that Democrats are "funding" a caravan of immigrants.
They fall flat in the face of Fox News telling us that the assassination attempts on democratic leaders was a "false flag."
They fall flat in the face of basically
everything published by Brietbart, Alex Jones, Daily Stormer, and The Federalist.
QUOTE Also, Ryu smashed my screen door and I didn't make him pay for it, and I bought you a beer and a burger so chill out.[/quote]
Yeah and gave me my first taste of the ganja. I remember it well. We watched some hockey. That won't ever change the fact that my life, and the lives of many of my friends, is on the line every day because of the various flavors of bigot that not just live in this country but actually factually run it.