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Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 4:38 pm
by Xason
My condolences to you and your family on your loss

Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 5:20 pm
by uberkill
Sorry for your loss, ryj

Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 6:24 pm
by Solarflux
Sorry to hear Ry. My condolances to you and your family.

Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 8:25 pm
by ratak
My condolences for your loss man.

Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 8:36 pm
by Duckwarrior
My dad passed away in 2003, I don't think there has been one day since that I haven't thought about him, my condolences Ryj.

Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 8:42 pm
by slap
Sorry for your loss, deaths a hard thing.

Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 9:17 pm
by ryjamsan
I want to thank everyone.

We will have the wake monday evening and im finding it very hard not to completely lose it. It's taking everything I have not to curl up in a ball and cry. My family has been great and my mom is taking it so much better then I thought should would. My brother and I have kept busy cutting grass and the like, we even went to waffle house and had a nice 2 hour talk about everything.


This is the closest person in my life I have ever lost. Next to my father in law who did I few years back. this makes me understand what my wife went though.




and to all who replied, thanks you





It may seem odd I would post this here but you guys are great. And even guys here who are not fans of mine, feel my pain.

Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 9:35 pm
by l1ngus
I am sorry to hear this. My condolences to you and your family.

Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 11:07 pm
by Waltz
My condolences, I'm sure he was a great man.

Posted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 12:58 am
by Vortrog
I hope you have a significant other and family close to help you out for a while. Dont feel lesser for letting it out either, or it will just find some other time to come out. In fact, go ballistic for that same reason....as you will be irrational for some time, and it will the only way to help you be sane.

Celebrate his life.....must be done and done well becuase it will leave an impression...a good one.

And my personal suggestion...do not do a viewing.....you do not want a last memory of his face to be anything other than smiling, laughing or living.

My father died in a car accident when I was 4.....mother in a landslide when I was 27......I am happier for my choice above.