A son's loss

Xason · Post by **Xason** » Sun Oct 18, 2009 4:38 pm

My condolences to you and your family on your loss

uberkill · Post by **uberkill** » Sun Oct 18, 2009 5:20 pm

Sorry for your loss, ryj

Solarflux · Post by **Solarflux** » Sun Oct 18, 2009 6:24 pm

Sorry to hear Ry. My condolances to you and your family.

ratak · Post by **ratak** » Sun Oct 18, 2009 8:25 pm

My condolences for your loss man.

Duckwarrior · Post by **Duckwarrior** » Sun Oct 18, 2009 8:36 pm

My dad passed away in 2003, I don't think there has been one day since that I haven't thought about him, my condolences Ryj.

slap · Post by **slap** » Sun Oct 18, 2009 8:42 pm

Sorry for your loss, deaths a hard thing.

ryjamsan · Post by **ryjamsan** » Sun Oct 18, 2009 9:17 pm

I want to thank everyone.

We will have the wake monday evening and im finding it very hard not to completely lose it. It's taking everything I have not to curl up in a ball and cry. My family has been great and my mom is taking it so much better then I thought should would. My brother and I have kept busy cutting grass and the like, we even went to waffle house and had a nice 2 hour talk about everything.

This is the closest person in my life I have ever lost. Next to my father in law who did I few years back. this makes me understand what my wife went though.

and to all who replied, thanks you

It may seem odd I would post this here but you guys are great. And even guys here who are not fans of mine, feel my pain.

l1ngus · Post by **l1ngus** » Sun Oct 18, 2009 9:35 pm

I am sorry to hear this. My condolences to you and your family.

Waltz · Post by **Waltz** » Sun Oct 18, 2009 11:07 pm

My condolences, I'm sure he was a great man.

Vortrog · Post by **Vortrog** » Mon Oct 19, 2009 12:58 am

I hope you have a significant other and family close to help you out for a while. Dont feel lesser for letting it out either, or it will just find some other time to come out. In fact, go ballistic for that same reason....as you will be irrational for some time, and it will the only way to help you be sane.

Celebrate his life.....must be done and done well becuase it will leave an impression...a good one.

And my personal suggestion...do not do a viewing.....you do not want a last memory of his face to be anything other than smiling, laughing or living.

My father died in a car accident when I was 4.....mother in a landslide when I was 27......I am happier for my choice above.